I recently read the article “When You’re Only Text Friends” by Charlotte Steinway and it got me thinking about communication.
Generation Y is introducing a new way to communicate than our forefathers. We depend too much on texting, Facebook, and instant messaging. We are basically spoiled with the ability for immediate communication. We are also used to being in control when and how that communication will happen. Young adults and younger people are used to communicating in a non-direct method. Kids do not talk on the phone as much anymore. They don’t say high in public when they run across people they know. They don’t really get to know anyone before they have had a chance to scope them out on Facebook. They need to pass the Facebook test first; are they human? Kids prefer to casually browse among pages to see what their friends are up too than actually asking them. And they don’t like surprises of running into people they know or have acquaintances with. When kids are put in those circumstances they are now finding ways to ignore the other person rather than have an unplanned conversation in person. Is this new generation becoming rude or just socially awkward? Are we misusing technology to disconnect from the real world?
Older generations communicate much differently. I’ve seen it first hand. For example, when I’m with my, Baby Boomer Generation, parents they seem eager to run into people they know in public. They love the opportunity to strike up a conversation in the middle of anywhere at random times. They like to call people rather than text and they always want to visit in person. Communicating through the internet is just too impersonal.
Communication is evolving. Is it changing for better or worse?